Have sex and use a vibrator at the same time

But how often do we hear the nitty-gritty of how we can actually better understand our deepest desires and most embarrassing questions? You cannot get desensitized from using a vibrator; although, you might become accustomed to it. Start by masturbating yourself when he is beside you without him helping. Meet the World's Greatest Sex Hacker. This field is for validation purposes and should be left unchanged. Reassure them that it is not a comment on their performance, but an exciting tool that will augment both of your experience. I am happier to be on my own.