Bdsm sub training

If she is holding onto something already, like the headboard, tell her not to let go of it until instructed to do so. Leave a reply Click here to cancel the reply You must be logged in to post a comment. One is not better or more deserving of respect or consideration than the other. Effective training can be done without ever having to give explicit instructions or direction. Subs want to please, so the early stages of a relationship necessarily involve learning how to please one's dominant. Earning your submissive's respect is never accomplished by yelling, hitting, or handling your submissive in a harsh manner. The scientist rang a bell each time he fed the dog.

Full-time submissives, on the other hand, are usually the hard-core players in the BDSM game. Cross says:. Well done. Spence, B. This is your body language, your facial expressions, the words you use when you talk to them, if you use their real name or your pet name for them, whether you look at them while you talk, and pretty much every other thing you ever do, ever. The information and theories represented in this handout and the accompanying presentation represents the work of many prominent behavioral theorists, including, but not limited to: Vladimir Bekhterev, Ivan Pavlov.

Leave a Reply Cancel reply Enter your comment here A fixed ratio schedule tends to produce a steady rate of high-frequency behavior as the submissive tries to get as many rewards as possible, as quickly as possible. Herrnstein, Clark L. But don't think for a second that all submissives bend to everyone's whims in their everyday lives. Instead, you could look into becoming a dominant or even a switch someone who participates in BDSM as both a dominant and a submissive.