Submissive in public

Everyone brings wine, food, snacks, and we do too. Most of the time I remember to do this before the staff asks for drink orders, but if I don't I reword the request to, "Do you think I should have Diet Coke? Thank you for your your time. If it is a double set of doors, typically I'll get the first one and he'll get the second. Sometimes we subs can be so damn subby. It became an expectation from my end. That is undeniable.

There is no right or wrong answer here. But, I have to tell you, in three years… no one has said a word. Cute babe fisted and fucked in laundry. Sometimes it IS smart not to let others know though, haha! Thank you for your your time.