Knowing your a lesbian or bisexual

Some people know right away that they are gay or bisexual, others go their entire lives only to discover more about their sexuality much later on. Reflecting on these questions - perhaps even writing about them in a private journal - could help find you some peace and answers. But full disclosure: You can have fantasies about anyone or anything, and not actually want that someone or something in real life. To realise whether you're gay or lesbian takes a long time. In fact, genderqueer or gender-fluid individuals may have an unfixed gender identity. Who do you have crushes on? No one else gets to, buddy.