Bleeding from the butt

Have you been having difficulty when you poop? It was very light. Based upon your comment, the issue is really your constipation. One way to do this is by trying some anal play on your own time, without a partner. To put it simply, understanding what your anus can handle may prevent you from going too big too soon with a partner or not using enough lube. The oil can break down the latex and render your safe-sex method less effective.